‘Dating just kind of sucks’: Summing up the online dating experience in Seattle – Seattle Times
Jen Au downloaded Bumble and OkCupid after her friends dared her to go on 10 dates with 10 different men. Within a month, she had completed the dare, gone on 10 dates and was entirely worn out — with no love in sight.
“Dating just kinda sucks,” she says. “I had never been the type to think that I would get married, but after a few dates I was like, ‘Please give me the sweet release of marriage. It’s clear what I want now. Not this, not this.’”
And that’s dating in Seattle.
It’s frustrating, confusing, tiring. And in this desperate land of 30-year-old high school cliques and lost love, dating apps have come to the rescue of lonely singles everywhere. While they may have started out as simple web pages with a person’s photo, some fast facts and a messaging function, these apps are evolving and multiplying in number while becoming more specific and easier to use.
The Seattle dating scene needs to buckle up. Online dating is changing faster than people’s relationship statuses.
A closer look at the city’s dating culture exposes the impact of the Seattle Freeze (if you don’t know what that means, Seattleites are said to be standoffish and unfriendly.) According to a survey released by Seattle-based Pemco Insurance this past April, just under 40 percent of the poll’s 1,200 participants in Washington and Oregon said it’s not important for them to make new friends.
Additionally, this app culture has also shown